On 1st January 2016, I sat contemplating the year ahead of me. I was going to turn 50 on 23rd May, but instead of feeling excited about it I was feeling a huge sense of loss and fear. The year would also have heralded my 20th wedding anniversary and my husband’s 50th…instead of which I was facing divorce proceedings and the prospect of spending my 50th (and his) alone.
But I’m not the ‘victim’ type. I wanted to do something that would give me a new focus and carry me through this potentially difficult year. Something positive…and challenging…
And so, 50shadesofbrave was conceived.
50 adventures in my 50th year… some big, some small, some new, some I’d wanted to do for a long time and just never got round to… This would be the year of NO EXCUSES. Oh yes, and a big 50th party too…!
As we embark on a new year, I am delighted to report that by 31st December 2016 I accomplished the 50 challenges I set myself. One of the challenges was to blog my adventures, so you can read about every single adventure and what I learned about myself in doing them. One thing is certain… 12 months on I am a different person.
Reviewing my 50shadesofbrave has brought about two decisions:
- I am going to publish my story
- I am going to coach other women to be brave in the face of life changes and to challenge themselves to grow and move forward by trying new things in life. 2017 sees the birth of 50shadesofbrave Coaching.
Spread the word 🙂